How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 05:09
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Hangs out with loser friends.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
How many women have accidentally pooped their pants and became turned on afterwards?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Does not procrastinate.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
How come Taiwan is LGBT friendly, yet Japan and South Korea are not?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Making more friends is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Why hasn't Japan legalized same-sex marriage?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
What I need from you?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
What blowjob techniques do you use for your man to cum inside your mouth?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How far does good behavior take you in a prison?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
That's it for today.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Ask yourself:
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.